Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Happy New Year! My word for 2009 is...

2008 was an amazing year for me...full of wonder, excitement and new experiences. The most important happening was the birth of my beautiful baby boy! Giving birth has been the most rewarding and wonderful experience ever in my life. Getting married to my handsome, beloved highschool sweetheart was the most important in 2000, but now ranks behind giving birth, but that is an experience we shared.

I took Amy's idea of a Word for the New Year and started thinking and praying for mine. I loved this idea so much better than resolutions, I was never a fan of resolutions. It just seemed like a joke. But dedicating a word for the whole year is awesome. There were so many words that would be perfect...organize, family, reading, and the list goes on.

But the word that has touched my heart is...WANT(s).

Christmas really made this even more clear as I looked around at kids, family, friends, co-workers and saw the greed of wanting presents and things. Then how empty they still felt and it wasn't enough. More. Things. Stuff. Junk. I have been in purge mode since I brought out all the Christmas decorations after Thanksgiving. I purged alot of my Christmas decorations that I've had forever or just wasn't my taste/style anymore.

So why WANT? Well, things don't bring happiness and sometimes things take your attention away from what is important...Brad and Chase...family. The more stuff I have, the more that it takes my time. My house if fairly clutter free, kind of, but I want it to be minimal. Simple.

I want my life to be...Less Is More. But to have this, I need to pray that my WANTS are held at bay. I do pretty good for the most part, but when I go shopping something always catches my eye. And now with Chase, I love to buy for him. But not anymore.

So I am dedicating my "wanter" so that stuff and things don't call out my name when I am in a store, garage sale or screaming at me from the clearance rack.


Happy New Year!

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Christmas at the In-Laws

Christmas day we spent all day at Brad's moms in Honeoye on the lake. We enjoyed wonderful appetizers, as always, and presents. CJ, Brad's nephew, was the present giver, and he helped just about everyone open theirs as well.


CJ thinks if he blows into his thumb it will make his muscles bigger.

What is it Gram?

Chase's new cozy. He wasn't quite sure about it.Chase in his new (used) walker. CJ tried it out a few years back.
Thanks Grammy. I love it!

The kids bought the parents a Wii and Wii Fit.
Brad showing Gram how to bowl.
He loves this. Lights flash, things pop up, and music plays. So peaceful. :)

Nicole waiting....and waiting....and waiting.
Baby Ella and Santa (Papa)

Again, we should've just bought boxes.


What daddy? You open it.

CJ loooovvveed his legos from us.

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Christmas Eve at Nonnie & Papas

Christmas Eve we went to my mom and dad's to celebrate Christmas with everyone, my sister, brothers and neices and nephews. The more kids we add the more crazy it gets. Hopefully next year there will be a little less chaos and more control in opening the presents. Kids just get carried away when toys are involved. But we had a great time and Chase had fun.

The Grandkids
Only 7 1/2 months and he is already into all the gifts. :)I was told just to give him a box and he will be happy. And here he is after we took Pooh out. The Entire Family
Christmas Eve 2008

Saturday, December 27, 2008

It's finally in my hands

Ever since my 35mm Cannon Rebel XLT stopped working properly about 3 years ago, I've wanted to upgrade to a digital version. But it is an expensive investment and I tend to put other things first, siding the house, paying the bills, and the list goes on. Well, on a whim and in an instant I became a owner of a new 10 mega pixels, Rebel XTi on Friday. It was an absolute steal. I am so excited. I took a photography class about 5 years ago using my 35mm but I need to refresh my memory. I'm so thankful I was patient because it was a deal, well I should say, God blessed me with this. Below are some samples of my experimenting.
A little much with the flash. But cute nonetheless.

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!


MY CHRISTMAS WISH


I remember the tree—decorated so bright,
and tramping thru’ snow on a cold winter’s night—
the holly and mistletoe where lovers would kiss,
and all the great gifts—that’s what I sure miss…

But most of all, when I hear Christmas songs,
I think of the Christ Child and where he belongs—
deep in our hearts and memories too,
in church and at home with more than a few.

In ‘Nativity Scenes’ on everyone’s yard,
in windows of stores, and in Christmas cards.
I long to see those sweet images of—
children in school plays bowed with haloes above.

To hear cheery greetings as strangers pass by,
and know His spirit shall live—never die
if we not let tradition and God disappear,
and celebrate His birth, year after year…

Oh, Heavenly Father, forgive us for straying—
for parties and shopping, too much holidaying.
Bring us to our senses—turn back the dark tide,
for we need you, dear Savior, right here by our side.

Tamara Hillman

Monday, December 22, 2008

Dear Chase,

Today, you are 7 months and 17 days old with just 3 days before your first Christmas. You've grown so much is these past months. Starting out as a big boy, 10 lbs. 2 oz. and now weighing over 17 lbs. You have your two bottom teeth, which was not a fun experience for you, nor mommy and daddy. You love to babble, saying da-da-da-da and just saying jibberish. You sit on your own and play with your toys, any toy is a fun toy for you, especially the remote or your mommy's phone. One you fall to your tummy, you army crawl all over the place. We turn our head for a second and you are on the otherside of the room. You've been teaching your buddy Phoenix how to "crawl" as well, daycare is thrilled...two little mischievous boys getting into trouble. :) As the days go on, I am amazed on how much you've learned and continue to learn. I've been told that time doesn't fly until you have children and they just sprout right before your eyes. That is exactly how I feel. I can't believe how much you've grown in just 7 months. I feel like you were just in my tummy a month ago. Life's been so busy with the holidays and I've been caught up in the commercialization of Christmas...gifts, wants, gifts...that I missed you changing right before me. So tonight I stopped the chaos and just spent the entire night with you. We played with blocks, I built them high and showed you how to knock them down. You were having so much fun knocking them down, mommy couldn't build them up fast enough. After blocks it was time for dinner. You love to eat. As you were eating mommy sang some Christmas songs...Jingle Bells, Frosty the Snowman and the ABC song.
Then your favorite time...bath time. You just love your bath and the bath squirters that Grammy bought for you. As I started to fill the sink, I dumped your toys in the water and you wanted to jump right in to play. You would play all night if you could. One night daddy was giving you a bath I heard you crying. I wondered why and went to your room while daddy put you in you jammies. I asked him why you were so upset and he said because you didn't want to get out, but then I saw you didn't have a toy in your hand. Silly daddy, he didn't know that you take a bath squirter with you when you get out. You play with it and babble while you get your baby massage and jammies on.
I love you so much baby boy. I never knew I could love someone so much. I love your daddy so very much but everyone always told me that a mother's love is different and so strong. I love your sweet baby smell, beautiful smile, laugh and babbling, your wonderful personality and the way you look at me and love me. I just can't imagine how I could love another child just as much. I know God makes a mommy and daddy's heart special so that we can. So when God decides to bring you a brother or sister, we'll love them just as much as you. But one thing...I do wish you would sleep better at night, at least longer than 3 hours at a time, 5-6 would be nice. You're such a social butterfly, you don't want to miss out on anything. As I finish writing, you are crying, you've only been sleeping 3.5 hours. Daddy is trying to sooth you, I guess mommy better come to the rescue.

Love,
Mommy

Saturday, December 20, 2008

First Time in the Snow

Snow, snow, and more snow. I am so excited about all the inches of fresh, fluffy snow we got last night and today. (However, it was not fun to drive home in yesterday.) But nevertheless I love how crisp, clean and white it is, it brightens the dead, brown trees and grass.

Getting bundled up... It finally snowed on a Saturday when I could take Chase out during the daylight. After relaxing inside all day I finally bundled Chase up in his snowsuit and outside we went. He was so funny. The dogs were so excited we were out "playing" in the snow that they wanted to play too. I had to guard them from knocking Chase over.

Sitting atop a snow plow pile.



Chase Andrew Salatino
December 20, 2008
First Snow

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

My baby won't sleep...

Many of you know my little boy personally and know his sweet, go-with-the-flow personality. But what many of you don't know...he is a terror at night. Chase hates to sleep. He is such a social butterfly that I think he hates to miss out on anything. For the past, let's say few weeks or so, Brad and I have been trying to get Chase to sleep without having to nurse or rock him to sleep. I want him to be able to self-soothe when he wakes up in the middle of the night. He only sleeps for about 3-3.5 hours at a time. He used to sleep for about 6 hours straight and then he cut his first teeth and he hasn't been sleeping good since.

We've tried a few different ways and tonight for the second or third time we tried the cry-it-out method. The only thing is, Chase never cries himself to sleep. He just gets more upset. He cried for an hour and a half tonight. I went up every 15 minutes, turned on his musical glow worm and rubbed his back. He fussed and cooed himself to sleep and then as soon as I stopped he started again. So I left again for 15 minutes. Brad didn't want me to give in but my heart ached and I finally did. I love to comfort him and don't want him to dislike sleep. I googled "spare not for their crying" and came across an interesting blog. She uses some NIV and I don't necessarily believe all her views but it gave me some perspective. I feel guilty enough working full-time that I hate to make him "cry-it-out" when I can cuddle and comfort him. He is a natural cuddler, which I love.

I just continue to pray and that God will help me help him. I pray for patience and hope that someday soon Chase will sleep through the night and be able to go down for bed easier.


I thought this was cute and something I need to continuously remind myself as Chase grows so fast right before my eyes.


The cleaning and scrubbing will wait till tomorrow,
for children grow up, as I’ve learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down, cobwebs. Dust go to sleep.
I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.
Author Unknown

Friday, December 12, 2008

Gingerbread House

Last week I went to a friend's house for our annual Gingerbread House making and ornament exchange. This was my third year and we always have such a blast. It's amazing how we are all given the same exact ingredients and tools and each year we come up with a different style gingerbread house. But as you see, it's not actually gingerbread, we cheat and use graham crackers.

I'll have to find the pictures from last year and see how different they look.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Vote for Chase!

Chase needs your votes.
To commemorate his birth, I have entered him
in the D&C’s Meet the Babies 2008.
He will be featured in a special Sunday edition
on January 25, 2009 with all the other babies born in 2008.
But there’s more…you need to vote for him as the cutest baby.
Just click here to register.
You just need to enter an email address and the password
will be sent to your email.
Log in and click Chase as your favorite.
You can choose up to 10 babies as your favorites but why would you do that.
(Unless you had a baby and their in it too.) :)
Tell everyone you know…he could win a $1,000 scholarship.